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Yes Mr. Demille?
Sure, I went ahead and took another quiz. Why not? 🙂 Not surprisingly…
I’m a Talent!


Talent: 67%
Lifer: 33%
Mandarin: 33%
Take the Talent, Lifer, or Mandarin quiz.
Vroom Vroom!
It’s been so long since I took a quiz, I decided to run through the first one I found today 🙂 And thus…
I’m a Porsche 911!

You have a classic style, but you’re up-to-date with the latest technology. You’re ambitious, competitive, and you love to win. Performance, precision, and prestige – you’re one of the elite,and you know it.
Take the Which Sports Car Are You? quiz.
Quick Thoughts
I tried very hard to get online yesterday but, alas, could not do so. And thus, I must save my wishes of that day for today. So, do a little timewarp and pretend it’s yesterday!
First off, I hope all you Moms out there had a wonderful Mother’s Day! Special hugs and kisses for my wife Chantale, Mother to Kyle Ethan and StepMother to James and Melyssa 🙂
Secondly, Happy Wedding Day to Taras and Jan! Getting married on my birthday… sniff… how touching 🙂
Thirdly, Happy Birthday to Jeff (ya old coot!) 🙂
Finally, yes, Happy Birthday to me 🙂 I told the kids on Saturday night that I didn’t want anything special for my birthday since I’ve already celebrated so many of them. It was Chantale’s FIRST Mother’s day and thus I wanted to dote on her 🙂 Melyssa just went ahead and made the both of us breakfast in bed, waking us up at 9am with Casey the Wonder Puppy’s happy bouncing. Considering Kyle had woken up at 5am screaming in pain from teething and that I got up with him and finally got him back to sleep for 7am, I was strangely awake enough to appreciate the breakfast 🙂 James woke up at the same time, headed into the bathroom, blew his nose loud enough to wake Kyle, and thus we all ended up in bed. Many Mother’s Day cards later, we surprised Chantale with a gift. Something she’s been wanting for a while now and did not expect to get 🙂
As for me, the coolest gift I got was a Venus Flytrap! Really! 🙂
Now, as per my posts of last year, I was going to upload a Vanity Shot again, but my digital battery needs recharging so it’ll be on another post. The shots of me at 33 and 38 are still in my LJ bucket photo so I’ll probably just add it there and link it here when it’s done 🙂
Until then, speaking of photos, here’s the one from the PCTCC2006 of James’ meeting with J. Torres 🙂

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Time and BabblePost
Wow. It’s hard to believe it’s been almost 2 weeks since I last posted. I must say that it feels almost as though it’s been 2 months! Lots to say, not lots to say, but the only way I’ll ever say, what I need to say, is probably best via a list (hey, if it’s good enough for Moggy… 😉 ) You’ll forgive me if I shift from one topic to the other, however. Such is the brain.
1- Paradise Comics Toronto Comicon was great! James was totally thrilled to go and loved his first comic convention experience. I don’t think you can even imagine how he felt to be able to meet, talk with, and get his picture taken with J. Torres 🙂 He was especially thrilled to be in there when J. won a Joe Shuster Award for 2006 Canadian Writer
2- Speaking of the Shusters… they were great. I pretty much laughed the entire time there. Lot of jokes and good humour and just hearing Dave Sim belt out “My Way” after his induction into the Hall of Fame was hysterical. I had sat with JMS and Sara Barnes who always provide a laugh 🙂 I love the fact that even after her accolades, Sara still gets nervous having to go up and give a speach (or in this case present an award).
(by the way, t! As promised, I told JMS about how Babylon 5 and I were indirectly responsible for you and Jan getting married this year and he was all smiles – rocking in his chair saying “Excellent! Excellent!” 🙂 )
3- I have to start contacting folks again as I’m now actively looking to build up the 2006 Joe Shuster Awards Nominating Committee. Canadians only, of course 🙂
4- It was a really nice touch for James Waley to dedicate the JSA ceremony to Francisco this year. He may have been unable to attend, but he was definitely there in spirit.
5- It was great seeing Ronn Sutton and Janet Hetherington at the PCTCC! It had been WAY too long since we last spoke! I’m glad we had the chance to chat. I was also really thrilled to meet Raina Telgemeier! It was just unfortunate that I still hadn’t received my copy of The Babysitters Club Graphic Novel. At least I got a chance to pick up her mini-comics and chat for a bit.
6- All the anniversary events Chantale and I celebrated were incredible. We had the most amazing times together and it was great to be in our own “cocoon” world. Really beautiful family moments with ourselves and with Kyle and we’ve also been spending a lot of time getting the garden ready, getting rid of weeds, etc. We finally ordered a fence which should begin being set up Friday! Which reminds me that I need to pull out more money from the bank…
7- Kyle is amazing. Ever since his top two teeth finally came out last Friday, he’s been a wonderful bundle of joy and giggles. With Chantale working on weekends, we get to spend a lot of time together and it’s been really great finding our own “pace”. He’s grown so much and it’s just amazing to see it. He just loves to stand and has started climbing stairs like a true pro. In fact, it feels as though he’s grown intellectually by leaps and bounds in these last two weeks! 9 1/2 months and what a little whirlwind 🙂 If you haven’t gone to Chantale’s website recently, go take a look at the new pictures 🙂
8- APACon 1 is still a big possibility. That’s great. The tentative date would be the weekend of April 27th, 2007.
9- AMOCK is still in the planning stages. I may run a few test scenarios with that one first to see how we can make it work in a group setting.
10- The story I sold back in October might be back on the schedule. The editor had been having some issues that kept him incommunicado for a few months. I’m hoping things get back on track. I’m reworking some other pieces for submission at another place but found myself in a strange situation. I took a story that i had really liked and made some adjustments. It flowed a lot better and then I looked at the whole and said to myself: “Ok, such and such happens, and then we’re left with this part of the mystery cleared up… so what? who cares? why should anyone want to read this?” Probably the harshest criticism of one of my stories that I ever gave myself. Sheesh. If you’ve made it this far and are interested in seeing it, let me know and I’ll think about sending you a copy to review. Just need someone with the “right” eye.
11- I’ve been WAY too busy at dayjob lately that much has fallen by the wayside. I have at least begun catching up on some reading and reviewing.
12- This is nuts. I have way too much in my head to be able to get it all down here electronically. I’m going to have to stop here – now – before I lose it all again…
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Anniversaries
I’m coming upon that time of year again. Lots of moments to celebrate. Happy events are important to keeping life in perspective.
5 years ago today, my lovely wife officially moved in with me. It’s now been 5 years that we’ve been living together! Happy Moving Day Anniversary, amore! 🙂
Next week, two celebrations occur on the same day! May 3rd has the distinction of being the 3rd Anniversary of our taking ownership of our first home AND it also marks the 7th year that we’ve been together! 🙂 Do you still celebrate the anniversary you first started dating even after you get married? Yes, I do and feel it’s important 🙂
To celebrate, I’m taking Chantale out for supper on Monday May 1st. My in-laws are going to watch Kyle and we’ll be able to enjoy some nice, quiet time alone 🙂
Happy Anniversaries, sweetheart! 🙂
Highs and Lows
Late last week our Best Man, Francisco, came home from the hospital. After 10 weeks of being cooped up it was nice to see him back in his proper surroundings. He was in good spirits besides the fact that he still had a tube in him (set for removal on May 8th). Chantale, Kyle and I went to visit on Saturday night and it was a really nice supper/ time. Things felt “normal” again. Actually, it all felt wonderful and we made plans to go back the may 6th weekend.
Well, I just got news that he is back in ICU. His gallstones are moving around and causing more damage so they have no choice but to operate now. I know there was a fear at first considering everything else that had been going on, but now they have to intervene.
Thoughts/ prayers/ well-wishes/ anything is appreciated…
Revelations Update
Hmm… It’s been interesting seeing the survey results trickle in. I’m surprised at some of you…
It seems however, that there are two factions that have emerged – which I guess is only natural considering the post was attempting to address two different needs. One, the need of a “collective” comics or graphical creative group, the other the need of a larger-scale (ie; books/ novels) writing group. One can co-exist with another convention (for example, in the case of Comicopia & the Paradise Comics Toronto Comicon of 2007). The other needs its own space (ah, the finicky and self-centered writers… LOL!).
So where does this leave us? The APACon to celebrate Comicopia’s 100th Issue will be the end of April 2007 in Toronto, co-inciding with the PCTCC and Joe Shuster Awards weekend.
I will continue working on a planning for going AMOCK (A Meeting Of Creative Kinds) in the next couple of months and see if I can get something together for early Fall (if anything, it would have to be before November so we’re not too burned out to participate in NaNoWriMo 🙂 )
I’ll keep you up to date, but in the meantime, if you haven’t already done so, please answer the following surveys. It really would help if you filled out both of them.
Creating A Convention All about what it should be like
Creative Gathering Attendees All about you/ the attendees
Thanks!
Creating
Thanks to those of you who’ve been following yesterday’s discussion on building some kind of a creative gathering. It’s not too late to add your comments, so head over to Revelations and be heard.
In an effort to get further feedback from everyone, I headed over to SurveyMonkey and put up 2 pages of questions. Please take the time to head over and fill it out. The info is strictly for me but I will share the compiled data with everyone here (in an effort to really make something)
Please click through to the following surveys and answer every question. Both are necessary (with the second one being a possible template for a post-convention survey)
Creating A Convention All about what it should be like
Creative Gathering Attendees All about you/ the attendees
Thanks!
Revelations
I must admit that it is extremely difficult, stressful, frustrating, and at times aggravating to keep a full-time job while still attempting to keep and build a continuous creative body of work. Would that I wasn’t so tired from all the hours I’m sure I could better use the 15+ hours spent commuting more efficiently towards that goal. Alas, that is most often not possible.
Yes, I realize that the alternative is not at all appealing. I do have a mortgage to pay and a family to feed. I’m just saying.
Actually, I’ve been kicking around an idea in my head for a number of years now (probably more than I care to admit). I’m not the kind of person who goes off on weekend-long fishing or hunting expeditions, but I’ve often thought about having a “creativity” weekend event. This would be something used specifically to take time away from the daily grind – step away from “regular life” and concentrate on various creative projects.
I know how charged I get during weekend comics/writing/media/fiction conventions and I’ve often wondered how that same energy could be captured to actually follow-through on the impulses. Being around creative people talking about their works and your own works just invigorates me to keep building and creating. Unfortunately, once those conventions are over…
Of course, what I have in mind is something that’s worth testing if for no other reason than it would be a fun experiment. There are a number of factors, I feel, that need to be considered in order to be successful. These are, in no particular order:
– ability to be “away”. It’s too tempting at times to forget the goal if you’re at home or in your home city. Distance is key, but distance in a non-familiar environment (in other words, don’t head up to a family member’s place, go to a hotel in another city)
– ability to hold workshops or discussion groups. As I said before, it’s the sharing that helps get those creative juices flowing. Getting the time to work on your own is necessary, but sharing your trials and tribulations is a good kick.
– ability to disengage. There has to be some time for other events – be it strolling through the city or going for supper with others.
– ability to reminisce. Usually, this means having the chance to spend a few hours driving with your buddies, usually at the end of the weekend. A road-trip has to be enjoyed and if you’re not in as good a mood driving home as you were driving to the convention, then the weekend was not worth it.
In my mind’s eye I do see the big difference between what I’m proposing and what I know of that currently exists. That’s one of the reasons I’ve been telling Francisco (